Guys, if you want more sex, rediscover the art of kissing. Men in long term relationships often lament about their partner's lack of sexual desire. If your partner is simply not interested in having sex or your sex life has become so routine or boring that it's not worth mentioning, there are a few things you can do to help increase her desire for sex. One of these things is to kiss her more often and in the right way.

Remember when you first met your partner. You probably kissed a lot. It formed a connection between you. It was intimate, loving, and at times, passionate. Too often because we are either exhausted from work or overwhelmed with running a family, we no longer do the little things that glue us together as a couple and make us feel sexually desirable.

Women can sometimes become so involved in running the household and working that they leave little time for themselves. This can affect how sexually desirable they feel. If you want to improve your sex life one of the best things you can do is to find ways to affirm how sexually attractive you find her.

Try to regularly find quiet, private moments alone with your partner. Obviously don't approach her while she's cooking dinner, feeding the dog or resolving fights between children. Also, avoid times when you know that she is on her way to do something. Her mind will be preoccupied with other things and your efforts may only serve to annoy her. Choose your moment well. A good time is when you have just left an event you have experienced together or when she is taking a moment to admire something.

It is not about flooding her with flattery. You don't want to be too mushy either. She may think you want something or have for some reason become overly emotional. Neither is attractive. It is also not about your own sexual gratification, although hopefully you will soon have that too. What it is about is taking the time to show her physically that she is precious to you and that you find her beautiful. Don't try and initiate sex during these moments. It is about incorporating tenderness into your daily life. Actions really do speak louder than words here.

Remember to savour the moment. Don't just plant one on her. Speak to her softly. Gently touch her face. Trace her lips with your finger. Make it a sensual, intimate experience. Talk less: kiss longer.

Creating an intimate connection between you and your partner well before you head for the bedroom is definitely the way to go. Focus on doing small gestures often. If you incorporate this into your life you will be pleasantly surprised by the results.

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